Newborn feeding support
Feeding is the biggest source of stress in the early weeks, and it is the one that people are least honest about. It is also the one where a pair of experienced hands in the room beats any amount of reading.
Most feeding problems are mechanical before they are anything else — position, attachment, timing. Very few are a failure of the mother, though almost every mother assumes hers is.
What follows is the practical ground: how to tell a shallow latch from a tongue tie, how to know your baby is actually getting enough, and what to do when the plan you were given in hospital does not survive contact with your own kitchen at 2am.
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What this covers
- Is my baby getting enough?
- Nappies, weight, and the way a baby comes off the breast tell you more than the number of minutes fed. Counting minutes is the fastest route to anxiety and the slowest route to an answer.
- Latch, positioning and tongue tie
- A shallow latch and a tie can present identically — sore nipples, a clicking sound, a baby who slips off. The difference matters because one is fixed by changing how you hold, and the other is not.
- Supply, real and imagined
- True low supply is far less common than the fear of it. Cluster feeding, a growth spurt and a baby who wants comfort all look like supply problems and are not. Knowing the difference stops a lot of unnecessary topping up.
- Bottles, combo feeding and going back
- Combination feeding is a legitimate plan, not a failure state. Done deliberately it protects supply and sanity at once; done in a panic at midnight it tends to do neither.
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Free guide
The Newborn Cue Chart
Your baby tells you what they need long before they cry. Eight pages from Sue — the cue chart itself (print it for the fridge), the settling ladder, how to tell hungry from tired, what's normal in the first six weeks, and the short list of things worth a phone call.
Hands-on help with this
The Five-Week In-Home Package
Feeding changes week to week, so the support should too. Four hours a week for five weeks means the latch gets checked as your baby grows, not just once in the first fortnight — and you get a feeding and nutrition plan built around your baby.